Does he Like me? Does he loves me? How many times have we puzzled over the feelings of men! They say little – they send signals. 19 deciphered love proofs.
The man, the unfathomable creature. A “I love you” rarely gets over his lips. Especially not in the beginning of a relationship (and towards the end , well). Which is why we often phone Facebook en- whats app for hours at a time, dissecting each of his comments or deeds with pleasure in order to get the answer to just one, but very burning question: IS. HE. IN. ME. IN LOVE?
There are 19 very quite wonderful signals that prove: The guy is head over heels, up over both ears INTO YOURSELF . At least after an internal poll in the WOMAN editorial office. If you know more: Expand the list!
He is attentive.
He has noticed which movie or concert you want to see – and surprises you with maps for it. Even if it’s a love sweetheart that makes the horror bulbs rise up – he bravely holds out the 1 1/2 hours in the movie chair by your side. Because it is fun for YOU.
He brings something with you.
Flowers. Chocolate . No matter. Just because. For no reason. Except for the one, the most important: he likes you. Some women think that is slimy or cheap. We do not.
He wants to satisfy you.
We say what we mean. Even though he may not have the best talents and maybe even work in vain – but a guy who’s trying to make you orgasm , even though he does not have much of it himself, likes you.
He does not look at the phone.
Angry Birds and status updates can not be more important than you. Really not. That’s why he leaves the cell phone in your pocket in your presence. To suppress the impulse, to constantly stare at the display: we call it love 😉
He sends you funny photos.
Cat Memes, Men’s Leggings … He packs images of insider jokes that run between you into his Facebook or SMS messages. In short: He sends you memory of yourself. Who would have thought that the picture of an old, grumpy cat could be romantic? Well. Ask us ;-).
He wants to have you with you.
He meets his buddies and invites you? A fantastic, a great sign. Maybe his friends annoy you … and the afternoon at the football field is not necessarily your idea of a perfect date – but he really wants to have you around him. So let’s do him a favor.
He keeps you awake.
You might wake up slightly annoyed and sweaty from his embrace – but he just wants to squeeze you and hug and hug you – and that’s all oh so amazing!
He wants you to come home well.
Do not turn your eyes now! In his message “Are you home yet?” There is no annoying jealousy – but caring. And you only feel that when the other means something to you.
He organizes for you.
Actually, he had something planned tonight. But if you ask him for help (because you want to have your presentation checked, your heating is spinning …), then he throws all his plans overboard.
He pulls you up.
But in a loving way that makes you laugh (and does not make you cry secretly on the toilet later).
remember your word’s
He can remember all your conversations – such as when you told him in great detail which sneakers you find really awful. And what woman urgently needs now. He’ll surprise you with those on your birthday.
He tries to articulate his feelings.
That can be a bit difficult. If you ignore all the awkward pauses and “Ehhhhhs”, then what he wants to express is probably very sweet.
He compliments you if you are unadorned.
Oh, God, he does not even know that you have not applied make-up right now. The Look of Love … is not the title of a popular love song for nothing 😉
He is sentimental when it comes to you.
No, he does not have to howl torrents or wear your photo on his chest. But he keeps the little post-it message you wrote him a few days ago in his wallet. Or has a folder on his desktop where he has secretly saved your Facebook photos. For real. Some men do something like that.
He thinks your annoying habits are cute.
He even finds it adorable that you arrange the food on your plate so that they do not touch each other? Congrats. He loves you. Just have to be like that.
He surprises you with coffee.
You had a long night and a busy day ahead of you? He brings you a delicious coffee in the morning in the office. With milk froth, hazelnut flavor and cinnamon powder, just the way you like it. Did he notice that ( we refer again to point 11 ).
He is proud of you.
“This is my girlfriend, she just graduated and already got a job with this great company, and she also had this crazy idea how to … She’s so smart and beautiful – let’s face it, is not she great? “
He remembers what you do not like.
And that’s why it does not do it anymore. Gorgeous, girls! That means: Do not worry about sitting on the icy edge of the toilet at night, because he did not fold down the lid again. No more open toothpaste tubes!
He will catch you when you feel bad.
You had a horrendous day, would like to blar or bed you away … Then he prepares for you a delicious meal, puts you the mum pajamas ready and makes you the most wonderful gift of all: he just listens to you.